Who do you talk to who's dead?  I'm not talking about spirits or seances, just saying something to someone who's gone, and wishing you could get an answer.

I realized that I occasionally talk to my father, generally when I finish a project and ask what he would have thought of it, or when the Giants are playing a football game (Dad raised me to cheer for the Giants and loathe the Raiders, so this has been mostly a happy season).  Mom I talk to on her birthday or on April 15th (the day she died, and I'm sure she did it  as a gesture to the IRS).   Most of my other dead, I really can't think of anything to say to them.